By Edet Ikotidem

Introduction

If you’re trying to figure out if your girlfriend is fighting your feelings for her, then chances are you have some suspicions. Maybe she’s always busy, maybe there’s another guy on the side, or perhaps she doesn’t feel like having any fun anymore – whatever it is, the fact remains that these signs indicate that something isn’t right in her life-fighting her feeling for you.

10 Signs That She Is Fighting Her Feeling For You

1) She will try and act like she doesn’t care about you.

When you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s hard to tell if they’re really into you or just pretending so that it looks like they are. This is especially true when the person is acting disinterested, as this means they don’t want to come off as clingy or needy by letting their emotions show too much on social media (or even in person). If this happens with your girlfriend/boyfriend, watch out!

2) She will go out of her way to ignore you.

If she has been cold to you recently, it’s likely because she doesn’t want to deal with your feelings. She may even pretend that she doesn’t know who you are and/or where you work! This can be especially hurtful if the person being ignored is someone they care about deeply—and chances are good that they do care about this person; otherwise, why would they have bothered putting up with all these years? The fact that someone cares means there’s hope for reconciliation, but if that person continues treating us poorly after admitting their faults, then there’s no hope at all (unless we convince ourselves otherwise).

3) She might often change the topic to something more general, like work or school, to avoid talking about personal things.

This is probably the most common sign that she’s fighting her feelings for you. When they try to make small talk with someone else and then come back at you with a question about your relationship, it can be pretty obvious that this person doesn’t want to talk about their feelings for you.

4) Or she may pretend to have forgotten important things that happened between you, such as dates or other significant events.

If your girlfriend is pretending to have forgotten important things that happened between you, it could be an indication that she’s really fighting against your feelings for her. For example, she might pretend not to remember your birthday or another date you had planned. She might also lie about a significant event in order not to hurt your feelings.

5) She may suddenly seem distracted by new imaginary obligations and commitments whenever you want to spend time together.

• She may make excuses to avoid spending time with you, even though she has always been a dedicated partner in the past.
• She may have many friends that she talks about frequently, but they’re probably not the same ones as yours or your family members’ friends.
• Your girlfriend/wife is usually active on social media accounts like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram (or Snapchat), so if she changes her privacy settings on any of those platforms—especially if it’s associated with something like “private” versus “public”—it could be because she doesn’t want anyone else seeing what’s going on between her and one person only: YOU!

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6) Or she might even be completely unavailable all of a sudden, claiming that all her free time is already spoken for.

If she’s always busy, it may be because she’s not really interested in spending time with you. She might have a busy schedule, but it’s important to make time for the things you love. If your girlfriend isn’t making an effort to see other people or meet up with friends and family, then she could just be lying about her schedule and trying to avoid spending time with you.

If this is the case, then there is no reason why you shouldn’t try harder! You should still keep trying even though they might not want anything more than friendship at this point since they’re so busy with their own lives outside of dating (and maybe even inside).

7) And because of these constant disappearances and excuses, it might even seem like the two of you are drifting apart slowly, but surely.

Some women will actively try to push you away by sticking out their tongues at you in public or rolling their eyes when you try to talk about something important. Others may just be passive-aggressively letting this happen without making a big deal about it themselves. Either way, if your girlfriend starts avoiding spending time with you or being around your friends as much as possible—or worse yet, stops talking altogether—it’s probably because she has rejected your advances and feels uncomfortable around other people who know what’s going on between the two of them (and maybe even resentful).

8) If the two of you were making plans, she’ll probably cancel them at the last minute (or just not show up at all).

She might be unavailable all of a sudden. She might be distracted by new imaginary obligations and commitments whenever you want to spend time together.

9) She might also stop being affectionate with you in public, trying to give off the impression that the two of you aren’t dating or romantically involved with each other at all.

If she’s acting like you’re not her boyfriend, it’s a sign that she is trying to make you jealous. This can be done in a variety of ways:

• She might stop being affectionate with you in public and start being more reserved when around other people.
• She might start ignoring or avoiding hugs and kisses at home (or anywhere else).
• She may start flirting with other guys at the bar—not just one guy but many at once even if they’re taken! This could mean that there’s someone else on the side who wants nothing more than his company but he doesn’t have time for them because he has all these other options now too.

10) And when she’s with her friends, she’ll probably tell stories about all the guys who are dying to date her – and then laugh at their shamelessly flirting attempts during her stories.

You may be wondering, “But what if she’s not interested in me?” Well, here’s a tip: she might be. Maybe not right away, but eventually. And when it happens, you’ll know it because she will tell you how many guys are dying to date her and then laugh at their shamelessly flirting attempts during her stories (which are probably pretty funny).

If this sounds like something that would happen in your relationship with your girlfriend or wife…it probably is!

Conclusion

So, remember: if you’re dating someone who seems to be fighting her feelings for you, it might be time to take a step back and reevaluate the relationship. It’s perfectly normal for people in long-term relationships (or even just casual ones) to get complacent with each other sometimes – but if you notice that these kinds of behaviors are becoming more frequent and more intense than usual, then it might be time to talk about ending things between yourselves before they get t